+ another review of All About My Mother by Jonathan Beller
Matricide
Just prior to All About My Mother's closing credit sequence,
there is an effusive dedication "To all actresses who have
played actresses, to all women who act, to men who act and become
women, to all the people who want to be mothers... to my mother."
These final statements would seem to emphasize the new directions
Spanish filmmaker Almodovar has chosen. With this film, he has
offered up a kinder, gentler version of his usual gender-bending
and hysterical melodrama. Gone are the heroin-addicted lesbian
nuns (Dark Habits), women who fall in love with their
kidnappers (Tie Me Up! Tie Me Down!), and rapists whose victims
have orgasms while being attacked (Kika). It seems, judging
from All About My Mother's matrilineal focus and the huge
amounts of hype the film has generated on the European and North
American art-house circuits, that Almodovar has finally found his
groove he's worked all his kinks out and rebelled his way
through every foreseen transgression and there is now nowhere for
him to go but up. And it appears that Almodovarian transcendence
is a lot mellower than any of his previous forays would have
predicted.
But it would be misleading to leave it at that. The usual
suspects commonly found in his previous films still abound the
film features a pregnant HIV-positive nun, a transgendered
prostitute, a famous theater starlet who is a closet lesbian, and
finally, a man with large breasts named Lola. But here Almodovar
does not rest with his usual solicitation of archetypal or
outrageous performances; he insists on softly poking at these
characters' veneers to reveal the sweetness within. They are not
just played for shocks and laughs, but also for tears and
empathy.
And within this melodramatic technique lies a manipulation new to
the director's oeuvre, for, of course, in order to cry over the
characters' sometimes scandalous woes, viewers must be
successfully steered in the appropriate direction.
Perfectly suitable for the aforementioned task is Manuela
(Cecilia Roth), the film's central heroine, the least outrageous
of the crew, and absolutely gorgeous to boot. Whatever her past
might have been, she is now a single mother whose whole life is
devoted to her 18-year-old son Esteban
(Eloy Azorin). All About My Mother opens on a quiet night in
their home, as they're watching All About Eve on television.
His birthday falls the next day, and after he thanks his mother
for her gifts Truman Capote's Music for Chameleons and
tickets to see a traveling theater's production of A Streetcar
Named Desire starring Esteban's favorite actress, Huma Rojo (one
of Almodovar's own favorites, Marisa Paredes) what he wants
most is to find or learn about the father he never knew. Due to
reasons unknown to Esteban, and what is gradually discovered by
the viewer through ongoing diatribes by Manuela and her old
friends (diatribes involving cryptic remarks about large,
synthetic breasts and the scornfully pronounced name of "Lola"),
Manuela remains close-mouthed regarding paternal details.
Through this tactic, the character of Lola eventually enters as a
mythological persona non grata. The first of many tragedies then
occurs... On an appropriately miserably rainy night, while in
pursuit of Blanche Dubois'/Huma Rojo's autograph, Esteban is
struck and killed by a car. Having lost her only family, Manuela
resolves to return to her previous home of Barcelona in search of
her former family, but the search is primarily for Esteban
Sr./Lola. Eighteen years prior, Lola had known nothing of
Manuela's pregnancy or the son named after him. It seems he had
other concerns, mostly being those related to the fulfillment of
his desire for sex with as many people possible. And although the
picture painted of Lola is not pretty and Manuela did seem to
once love him, her attachment to Esteban II is portrayed as so
intense that at the time, she rejected all other attachments,
even to the biological father.
But her feelings change after her son's death, and so, Manuela's
search for daddy ensues, including many subplots and distractions
which allow for the emergence of a colorful supporting cast.
While attending numerous performances of Streetcar, now
conveniently showing in Barcelona, Manuela begins a friendship
with Huma Rojo, who is, we learn, obsessed with Bette Davis, her
drug-addicted co-star Nina (Candela Pena), and chain-smoking.
Manuela also resumes her friendship with the woman who had once
accompanied Lola to Paris for their twin breast-implant
surgeries, La Agrado (Antonia San Juan), so named, she says,
"because I have always tried to make things agreeable for
everybody." And most significantly, Manuela becomes a surrogate
mother to Sister Rosa (Penelope Cruz), a young, stunningly
beautiful nun who became pregnant by Lola while nursing him
through drug-rehabilitation, and who has also acquired his
HIV-status.
Despite these ingenious characterizations, Huma, La Agrado, and
even Manuela, gradually begin to fade away as Sister Rosa and her
pregnancy assume center-stage. The Sister herself is not a
particularly interesting character, as her most noteworthy
comment regards her belief that nuns should be garbed solely in
Prada. What's relevant about her character is her upcoming
childbirth. She is primarily a vessel, functioning to give back
to Manuela the son she lost.
This new son, Esteban III, provides emotional closure for both
Manuela, still feeling "empty" after the death of her son, and
for Lola, whose fast-ending life can now be extended through his
progeny. The film's first half, with its emphasis on Manuela and
her own good-hearted resilience, evolving posse of women, and (an
eventually revealed) penchant for acting, gives way to a second
half that is focused on mothering. The miracle baby, with his
seemingly permanent expulsion of his initial HIV+ status,
achieves full narrative prominence. And with this restructuring
of priorities, the film's sense of humor and irony fades and the
melodramatic suspense prevails.
By film's end, women acting has become much less important than
women mothering. Reasons for this directional shift are not
given: the film suggests that this shift a "natural" turn of
events, and so, motivations do not need to be explained. Manuela
is fiercely maternal from the onset, but other aspects of her
character had remained equally in view. This multi-faceted
characterization changes as the death and re-birth of an only son
becomes the film's guiding light, as well as its means to a
quietly essentialist embrace of motherhood. Forget the friends
made and the plays staged: now that Manuela has a son again, she
can finally resume her life and its "true" calling.