Women want to forgive
Cars and boys. They go together in U.S. pop culture,
and the celebratory images are unavoidable, from James
Dean chicken-racing his hotrod to Steve McQueen
zooming San Francisco hills to Jay Z bling-blingin' in
a Benz. Cars mean power, speed, and sex -- and boys
drive them.
It's true that the sex part can get a little
complicated, mainly because in traditional (i.e.,
conservative, simple, and someone-somewhere's wishful
thinking) iconography, boys are straight, and so they
need girls to ride in the cars with them. This means
that in conventional narratives, girls are mostly
relegated to passenger status (that is, erotic
object-plot device status), dedicated to helping boys
to grow up.
This familiar story gets yet another go in Penny
Marshall's new film, Riding in Cars With Boys,
only this time, the story focuses not on the boy but
on the rider, a small town girl named Beverly, played
by Drew Barrymore. Against considerable odds (namely,
the episodic script by Morgan Upton Ward, based on
Beverly Donofrio's book), Barrymore brings warmth and
passion to every moment she's on screen (and they are
many, as she ages from 15 to 35 during these
two hours, almost convincingly). This showcasing of
Drew has everything to do with her current golden girl
status. This seems to me a good thing. Barrymore is an
audacious survivor: at 26, she's lived at least a
couple of episodes worth of E! True Hollywood
Story, what with her industry-infested childhood,
addicted adolescence, and series of dangerous-looking
relationships. And now this revisionist Cinderella has
come out on total-top, as the power-princess of Flower
Films (her production company), the brains behind
Charlie's Angels (whose success evidently
surprised everyone), and, by all appearances, the sane
and supportive wife of Tom Green (!).
In Riding in Cars, Barrymore plays to her
strengths -- her ability to seem at once disarmingly
open, as well as poised, ironic, and above all,
delighted to be living her life. Her Bev is lit up
from inside, especially when she's riding in cars with
her girls, her school chums Fay (Brittany
Murphy) and Tina (Sara Gilbert, whom, you'll recall,
Barrymore tongue-kissed in Poison Ivy).
Unfortunately, the movie does tend to concentrate on
the "boys" part of its title, as they are associated
with her many hardships: getting pregnant and married
at 15, struggling to finish school, working at quickie
ice cream joints, and caring for her
adorable-confused-resentful son, Jason (who, after a
few very cute little boy actors, grows up to be Adam
Garcia, last seen romancing Piper Perabo in Coyote
Ugly, for which we might as well forgive him).
The first few scenes illustrate that even as a child,
Bev (here played by Mika Boorem) is eager to get out
of her hometown, Wallingford, Connecticut, and
further, that the only means she can imagine for such
escape is a boy. After dispensing a kissing lesson to
her younger sister (Celine Marget) in the upstairs
bathroom, Bev performs her ritual holiday duty -- pick
out the Christmas tree with her father (James Woods).
Riding along the snowy streets with the tree tied to
his cruiser's roof, dad asks her to tell him what
present she most wants. Bev pauses, knowing he doesn't
really want to know, then out it spills: she wants a
bar, so she can win the heart of the most popular boy
in her class, because otherwise, she'll just die
without him. "You can't negotiate my boobs," she
declares. Unsurprisingly, dad puts the kebosh on this
notion, pronto: "Keep your mind on books, not boys."
At this point, Jason's voice-over kicks in,
observing, as his 11-year-old mother seems on the
verge of tears, that this is why therapists make so
much money: parents always screw up their kids. (And
yes, he goes on to detail his own version of this
well-known tale.) Jason notes that Bev survived this
trauma, then proceeded to rebel against her father
(and to a lesser extent, her mother, played by
Lorraine Bracco) at every possible turn thereafter...
except the books thing. Dear Bev knows, apparently
innately, that this is her special gift, though her
early efforts, read aloud to her sister, are
teen-girlishly overwrought.
Such excessiveness may be genetic, as Jason's
periodic interruptions are more often distracting than
helpful, though they do underline what might be
understood as the film's point: Bev is always
going to be riding in cars with boys, no matter her
mighty efforts toward independence. The problem is
that Jason's onscreen-as-an-adult sections chronicle
his own similar efforts, and these are considerably
less interesting than his mother's at his age.
(Specifically, he asserts, he wants to "leave her,"
transfer from NYU to go live with his girlfriend in
Indiana, yet is afraid Bev won't let him; this doesn't
exactly coincide with what you come to know about her,
but okay, he's her kid and has his own issues.) While
the contrivance of Jason's narrating and driving is
sort of cute at first (because Bev and Jason are so
close in age, you're apt to mistake them for a
couple), after a few transitions, it's less so, mainly
because it becomes clear that its purpose is to
situate Bev between men, again. There is no escape.
The man who most cares for and suffocates Bev is her
father (and Woods is excellent here -- low-key
paternal, non-neurotic, suitably oppressive). Because
he's the local 5-0, there's not much that goes on in
Wallingford that he doesn't know about. And so,
throughout Bev's adolescence and into young adulthood,
he's always somewhere nearby, ready to bust her
smoking cigarettes or making out in cars: whenever she
even attempts to step outside the lines, she's pretty
much stopped in her tracks.
Since the film doesn't take Bev's point of view, it
can show you perspectives and events she doesn't
necessarily know about, like the time little Jason
turns her in to her dad for selling pot. More
interestingly, its vision of her is increasingly
complicated. While Riding in Cars doesn't shy
away from showing and making comedy out of Bev's own
bad choices, it also clearly endorses her will to
escape from this dim existence with which all the boys
around her -- her father, husband, and son -- seem
just fine. (That Bev never imagines her way into
driving herself anywhere is a little disappointing. I
understand that the titular metaphor demands that she
ride, but still...)
At the same time, the movie suggests that everyone
really does mean well -- no one here comes off a
villain, precisely, just uninspired or clueless. Even
Bev's no-count husband, Ray, a terrifically
irresponsible and self-destructive heroin addict,
seems to be not such a bad guy, mainly because he's
played by Steve Zahn, who makes it all but impossible
to hate on him. This generosity of spirit -- typical
of director Penny Marshall's work -- makes Riding
in Cars less edgy (or progressive) than it might
have been. I mean, when was the last time that you saw
a movie where a protagonist's heroin addiction
is treated as a kind of inexplicable "character flaw,"
never even pictured on screen (except for a brief,
G-rated detox scene), even though it adversely affects
everyone around him (including his next girl, played
by Rosie Perez in full-on bitch mode)?
I'm not suggesting that drug addiction needs to be
the focus of every film where it shows up, but it can
be helpful to see some context for it, economic,
emotional, whatever. Here, it's reduced to a plot
device -- one more reason for Bev to feel both stuck
and desperate to get out of town. More sadly, it's
also a mechanism used to display her ostensible forte,
her infinite capacity for forgiveness and support.
Because she's a woman, the film submits, this is what
she does. The one bit of "good" advice that Ray is
finally, after many years, able to offer his estranged
son Jason is precisely this: "Women want to forgive...
It's in their nature." Lucky for boys.