The Proposal

Director: Anne Fletcher

Cast: Sandra Bullock, Ryan Reynolds, Craig T. Nelson, Mary Steenburgen, Betty White, Denis O'Hare

(Touchstone Pictures, 2009) Rated: PG-13

US theatrical release date: 19 June 2009 (General release)

UK theatrical release date: 22 July 2009 (General release)

By Renee Scolaro Mora

Punishing

The Proposal begins with what looks like a surprise. Sandra Bullock plays against type, as the powerful, ruthless, oh, and single, executive editor Margaret. The ultimate castrating bitch, she’s left a trail of dead (men’s) careers in her wake. There isn’t much to differentiate her from that other corporate Medusa, Miranda Priestly from 2006’s The Devil Wears Prada

But Margaret inexplicably loses her footing when she learns threatened with deportation back to Canada. First, she makes a ridiculous decision, to demand that her long-suffering assistant Andrew (Ryan Reynolds, as terminally cute as Bullock, in his way) marry her to solve her green card problems. Second, though she’s puzzled when he has the guts to make his own demand (that she grant him an overdue promotion in return for committing a felony), she agrees. From this moment on, as they travel to Alaska to meet his family and convince them the relationship is for real, the point of The Proposal is Margaret’s punishment and redemption by true love. Of course, Andrew is the source of Margaret’s transformation into an acceptable woman since this will also secure his own status as a man (as “whipped secretary” is apparently less than ideal). For Margaret, the process involves multiple physical humiliations, frequent silencings and the requisite realization of her feelings for Andrew.

The troubling thing about Margaret’s “punishment” is the implication that she deserves it in the first place. Sure, she’s pushy and demanding, even harsh, but she’s also hugely successful, much to the appreciation of her bosses (Michael Nouri and Dale Place). When she fires Bob (Aasif Mandvi), he shrieks in response that she’s a “poisonous bitch” in front of the entire staff. The scene is laid out to suggest that even though she can be cold, at the same time, he deserves to be fired. When Margaret later admits that Bob’s name-calling made her cry, we get the point that she has a heart, but because she doesn’t show it like a proper girl, she must be schooled.

On the other hand, Andrew is wholly without fault. In the beginning, we excuse his butt-kissing since he is openly self-loathing on this point and further ingratiates himself to his office mates (and us) by warning of Margaret’s approach with such witty IM’s as “It’s coming” or “The witch is on her broom,” so they can scurry into various poses of busyness before she passes. He rarely visits his doting mother (Mary Steenburgen) and grandmother (Betty White), but that’s because his father (Craig T. Nelson) in an overbearing, unmitigated jerk. Andrew is just as self-serving as Margaret, happy to blackmail her to get that promotion, but again, we know that in truth he’s earned it, so his craven ambition is excused as well.

Most unsettling, though, is the way the movie positions Andrew’s new and righteous power over Margaret as a source of humor. So, when he forces her to get on her knee to propose properly, he makes her agony into his comical triumph: “Your heard me. On your knee.” She gets on both knees, thanks to her skintight skirt. And when he finally admits his own feelings, cutting off her ramblings with “Margaret! Stop talking!” his demand is punctuated by coworkers shouting their support with “Show her who’s boss, Andrew!” In all this, The Proposal is tired and unimaginative at best, and openly misogynistic at worst.  And no amount of cuteness makes up for either.

 

 

— 19 June 2009
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Comments

Great review. I didn’t have this same reaction in fact, at several times I remember thinking about how relieved I was it was nowhere near as vile as 27 Dresses. You make excellent points though.

Comment by Erin Donovan from Portland, OR — June 20, 2009 @ 1:21 am

Interesting points.  However, had this been the millionth time that a strong-willed male boss was made to suffer indignities at the hands of a female subordinate, I wonder if the author would have had such a reaction.  Or, if the movie would have just been written off as yet another version of the same weak story.

Comment by Marco from Atlanta, GA — June 21, 2009 @ 12:27 pm

I believe your desire to protect the female from mysogany has lead you to forget basic human kindness.  Margaret DOES deserve her punishment because she’s a selfish boss who doesn’t care about her employees.  If a male boss would have kept his secretary from going to her grandmother’s 90th birthday, I worry you would be crying about how workplace repression is still alive and well. 

Margaret deserves her comeupance because of how she acted for the past three years, and lest you forget, Andrew gets his in the form of family embarrassment when she leaves him at the altar.  He never took her seriously as a human being (kind, sensitive, loving), and he is thus punished for it.

Comment by Ben T. from St. Louis, MO — July 12, 2009 @ 10:47 pm

nice. i thought i was the only one feeling uneasy about this movie. i used to work in publishing, and its quite common for bosses (who happen to be mostly male) to keep staff back to meet publishing deadlines, and yes, these include public holidays, birthdays or whatever appointments you may have-you are usually compensated with a day off or extra pay-but the choice is always there: either do it and keep with the status quo or risk losing out to a more willing colleague or simply find another job. its not nice, but its commonplace. i don’t think margaret stands out enough to ‘deserve’ her punishment, also the punishment doesn’t result in her being a nicer person to everyone, say the immigrants at the immigration office or to value her colleagues and subordinates more, it just results in her being submissive to one guy. and if thats the ‘point’ of the unfunny humiliations and sexualization, it was just, well, painful to watch (especially where i was watching it, only the men were laughing in the cinema). i don’t agree with degradations of either gender in real life, but it is easier to laugh at it when its the men who suffer the indignities because its escapism from the power dynamics in the real world, just as it is funnier to watch the little guy take potshots at the rich corporate suit rather than vice versa on screen.

Comment by Kai — August 25, 2009 @ 12:24 pm

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